Ken
written by Guest on April 11, 2005

Are you crazy?!?!!? Tighty whities are much hotter than boxers!! But no undies at all is the hottest.

As for guys showing off their stomachs and butts, I'm not sure society has decided they can't do that. They did it in the 70s and they'll do it again. It's just the cycle of fashion. I've started doing it again already. Anybody want to join me?

it's gross either way
written by Guest on April 11, 2005

i don't care if it's cindy crawford or pamela anderson, a woman walking around with crack showing, even if there's some kind of G-string in it is gross!

more common is women wearing low rise jeans...showing off the huge amount of backfat that liberated women are now allowed to have. I think all guys might agree with me on this one; it's scientifically proven. women have curves. it's why we are attracted to them. the back fat keeps the curves of the legs going 'all the way up." when a waist line of jeans splices the curve, suddenly it's not legs that go up all the way anymore...it's backfat sticking out and sometimes even hanging over.

BUT it's in style. women are told they look good like that. idiots!

men, we can't forget that we're limited in our fashion liberties largely because our bodies are different, and because females' sex drive is different. we don't have curves that need to be expressed. we are hairy and most women find that gross. in fact, when not in the mood, I find that most women don't want to see most of men's bodies.

to counter this, I shave just about everything, and work out excessively. many of the women I know tell me i should be an underwear model. but check this out! these same women freak out if my fashion style differs even slightly from the norm. e.g. if my shorts don't touch my knees while standing, if the neckline of a shirt is atypical, if I wear a skirt, etc, etc.

I've found that in order to be most attractive to most women most of the time I have to wear long pants even in summertime. shirts with collars are good too. keep the hair "typical." smell nice of course. I've worked hard at this goal for years and have achieved it in the past few. advantage: I'm very happy with my ability to pick up beautiful women. disadvantage: I have a need to feel equal and free to do / say / express myself the way that I want and sometimes that means wearing a skirt or makeup or running around half naked. I guess it goes to show you can't have it both ways.

Both ways
written by Steven on April 12, 2005

Actualy I was being a bit sarcastic on the tighty whities, boxers seem to come in many more variations and flavors then briefs, but I've yet to see a guy with his pants at his hips wearing briefs or being bare.

I don't think society has decided that either, it's just the prevaling styles that are available to males, there always long. While female styles are shorter and typicaly do not tuck in or overlap the bottom.


I think I know what your saying about backfat and think it also relates to the skintight and low rise styles worn. One would need to be fairly fit in order to avoid that, or break down and wear something that fits properly.

As for male bodies being different, I will agree to that, but at the same time, not every male is the same as every other male just as the same as every female is not the same as every other female.

I know males who wear female trousers as they fit better, and I know females who wear male trousers for the same reason. One lady in fact told me she was a corssdresser since she prefered male styles then female ones for fit and function.

As for curves, well, there are only two curves that I know of that females talk about on males (actually three) One is their butt, how some women comment on a guy's butt when he's wearing loose slacks or jeans is beyond me however.

The other is what I call "The Bulge" it's not your stomach which would be the third one, I'm talking about the one below it. I have females that get all upset over my bulge, yet go absolutly bonkers when I wear a skirt that covers it up.

Most females I know have two bulges, and there are any number of styles and choices that they can wear that accent these two bulges. And the amount that these two bulges are exploited in advertising is beyond comprehension as well as a females bare legs.

They only thing that more men are exploited on is their face or stomach, and even with this most people think it's gay related. Advertisers have made females appealing to males and females, but male are usually not used due to the sterotyping they face. Just look at the ads in magazines or TV, females are buying car parts, fixing holes in drywall, swinging sledge hammers, etc etc. I'm not saying it's wrong for females to do these things, and it's nice that they are not stereotyped, but why cant advertisers use males in typical female roles without making it some kind of joke?

Speaking of legs, I have no less then ten females in line for my legs and one of those females is my own mother. Shaving is a western culture thing, Mr. Gillette and the health people of the time thought body hair was unhealthy and thus promoted shaving. Female actresses are the ones who really got women into shaving as people imitated them. Why shaving for males never really took of more then it has I don't know. But I have come across a number of females from eastern cultures that do not shave their legs and while people around here find it disgusting, that is their opinion and just plain disrespectful of another persons culture and choices.

When I was younger I wore shorts, and this was back when they used to come higher then mid thigh, I didn't like them then, and I dont like them now, and no way would I wear one that reached my knees. As such however I have no idea why I like skirts compared to shorts, they are different, yet achieve the same effect.

I've been told that males shouldn't wear skirts as it confuses people, well, I've been confused by enough females who wear pants. In fact, I've even been confused by guys who wear pants, it can take a little bit to figure out ones sex at times. But I honestly can't believe the people who insist that males only wear trousers to keep people like them from being confused. To place such a restriction on males based on that is just silly, besides, I've seen far too many females wearing pants use the wrong restroom.

Being typical will attract typical people, beign untypical will attract untypical people. Untypical people can be hard to find, but are usually worth it then trying to convince typical people differently.

Steven

Can guys wear boxers and not let them sh
written by Guest on February 12, 2006

Almost every single guy who wears boxers probably shows them off because they say "it feels good" or "it's the style." All of my sons sag almost all the time in the house and i don't mind it. But sometimes when their jeans are below their butt, i have to draw the line. I mean do any guys who wear boxers just keep them to themselves??? :roll

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written by a guest on February 7, 2007

guys shouldnt wear skirts, its sick. What are you doing looking at guy's crotches?

What are you doing looking at guy's crotches?
written by Steven on February 10, 2007

Who? you know, there are plenty of females that look at guy's crotches (including my gf), and most likely a few guy's too. Does that make it vulgar or obscene? I think not, if one were to be detrimental toward it, then yes, it could be a problem, but it would be the person who had the problem with it and not the object itself.

As for guy's being sick for wearing skirts, there are plenty of guys wearing trousers who are and/or do get sick, fact of life.

Steven